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If you're at a bar and she doesn't look like the last one when you're leaving you're not having fun when you get home

2 at 10, 10 at 2 is bad advice. I seen it happen.

I think I just have a thing for crazy women

I get that from you.

its not my fault okay its an addiction

"I have a type and it is bad for me."

hey I am trying to have a normal relationship with a normal woman but between being a workin' woman and her family she's always busy and I feel like a nuisance so I try not to bother her and I should probably not involve myself but I want to involve myself

It takes time and patience when you want to not fumble a particular situation. I personally try to err on speaking and acting a lot less than I listen and observe

>Been really fucking shitty sad depressed lately so being able to feel good for once is nice

So many bros can relate to this, personally included, so, yeah

I should have been a pair of ragged fucking claws

I went to visit my mom yesterday to bring her a breakfast treat and I told her I was just insanely lonely all the time and I found out she's been trying to set me up with a girl I went to school with my whole life. Then she started going through a list of all my ex's she personally liked telling me to talk to them lmfao. Love my mom but sometimes she doesn't get it

It feels like for women their loneliness is assuaged if they have someone, anyone with a pulse to talk at.

For men I think it takes others who actually understand. (So maybe it’s the same for both and women just don’t understand shit).

I sat with my grandfather when he was dying and neither of us had much that needed saying and after a while he said, “This is the nice thing about men, you can just enjoy each other’s company in silence.”

I feel this. I actually don't talk a lot irl. It used to bother my ex a lot but I actually enjoy a mutual silence. Guys do get it. But we can also sympathize with eachother easier too

The only cure for male loneliness is doing dumb, but meaningful stuff with the boys.

I also think Erikson’s concept of “generativity” is important much sooner than he states. Men need quests, and quests quite often are for someone else’s benefit (and the loot drops plus xp)

yeah we have get togethers here with poast fellas a couple times a year it's always a fun time. I got local friends (and local poast friends) but the loneliness I mean is physical touch. Like, I have been sleeping on the couch because the back makes it feel like there's somebody else there so I don't just wake up after an hour or two. I'm not used to being alone like that anymore

was just thinking of her and she called me

just called again and shes telling me about being sweaty. might have to go over

We just call those ones 'women'

Something tells me you haven't come across the kind I'm addicted to yet

I got my scars, mate

You been stabbed too?

With a fork once. Bitten and clawed too.
Dodged a few flying glass things.

Hey same on the form one of those meat fork things on a downward angle into my ankle. I got a giant split in the back of my head from one of those 5 pound crystal ashtrays. Stabbed in the other leg with a pencil. One ex tried to strangle me with a cord when I was drying off out of a shower lol

Glad mine was an awful shot with the ashtray. She did it again to one of her girly friends on holiday after we split up.
To the survivors, cheers!

It was middle of the night in the winter and we lived in a small town at the time and I left my house with a trail of blood down the sidewalk to a bunch of my neighbors houses trying to get somebody to call me and ambulance. It must have been gushing because it wasn't drops it was like a trail

That's a level above me, sensei. Managed to patch myself up after my experiences

Matches the natural hair part scar I have on the front of my head from drinking with the mates all day on a patio in 90+ degree weather. Passed out and split my head open on a fence

My 20s were so boring. I didn't even total a car until I was almost 40.

Never done that. I can tell you all about crazy women. I'm like. An expert. Wrecking vehicles? Not so much

Well the wreck was caused by a crazy woman, just not one I knew.

I only suffered psychological abuse in my relationships. Got slapped once and that got an immediate response in kind. That relationship (of ten years lol) ended really quick after that.

Oh if we want to get into psychological damage I can go on for literal days on just my last relationship.

Realusing you're still alive and ok with a tree in the passenger seat is a memory that sticks with you (19)

I walked away with just a broken wrist after getting t-boned and dragged 40ft. They had to pry my door open and when I looked back at it went "Holy shit!" and started laughing. Bought another Subaru after that.

My story is somewhat more self incriminating and it was my realization that i'd been given a final warning from On High to stop being a fucking retard

I have a bad habit of instigating when the warnings make themselves present 😈

Easy shit compared to the emotional abuse of the BPD GF rodeo

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