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Both eugenic to some extent. There's got to be a reason Russians & Nordics have the largest boobs (besides better meal planning than Africans), & I'd guess it has to do with colder climates.

Waist-to-hip ratios get noticed, & apparently there's an angling of womens' asses coming off their back that hints at birthing ease (a good thing), plus fat below hips is used in baby brain development, BUUUT... asses for asses' sake seems largely a brown fixation, since their women are fatter there & don't have boobs at all often.

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According to Kalo on here, 70% of men are mostly retarded, which more men literally are retarded than women - true. We dominate middle IQ's.

So if most/average men like women on dumb side of smart curve, I'm sure it's their need to feel smarter than her. The 30, maybe even 35ish% of men who are higher might look for smarter brawds 🤔
@GoyGirl @EllisDee @Morghur @Dubbub @Kalogerosstilitis2RevengeoftheJunta @thefinn Women are good at pretending to
not be as smart as they are, along with a lot of other social queue things. If you’re pretty, people like you until you give them a reason to not like you. Some “smart” people have egos and look for clues to validate themselves in relation to others, so learning not to socially project intelligence is probably a handy skill. That and if a woman is pretty we men don’t always see her intelligence because her beauty is more obvious.
Estimating intelligence beyond your own is a hard problem, but one that humans have had a lot of time to figure out, because selecting a leader is an old problem.

Humor does this quite well because it's easier to get the joke than it is to craft it.

What does NOT work is long words and rambling sentences. That's pretty easy to fake, hence the pseudointellectual / midwit.
I'm largely an extrovert, & women are obviously vastly relationally different than men...

When I first became privy to certain info in the past 5-6 yrs, I thought I could win people to it with long speeches, etc. Worked on a few, but mostly not.

Now I just roll my eyes & make sardonic comments at times.
> women are obviously vastly relationally different than men

IMO most people underestimate the difference between female-brain and male-brain.

And biggest error I see people making (ESPECIALLY online) is (knowingly or unknowingly) trying to change topic to be about themselves. On here that shit is hell thread material.
@cjd @GoyGirl @Morghur @Dubbub @Kalogerosstilitis2RevengeoftheJunta @thefinn @EllisDee I don’t think talking about oneself is a sign of anything other than being human. Maybe narcissism in real life? Online is a crap shoot since there’s no tone or body language queues and we’re all blind to what we normally use to read the room. Basically we’re all “temporary spergs” because of the internet, which makes it appealing for actual spergs.

Something I like about the fedi medium is that it's not like a chat conversation where losing a message is actually a problem. I can just goto bed (I'm about to) and maybe see some messages tomorrow, maybe not, react to what I want, etc. So no apology necessary.