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I'm of the belief you choose one downer for the night. This includes that one shiddy, pessimistic friend every girl has.
@GoyGirl Did you choose me as your downer for the night?
Idk, are you pessimistic, or depressed? You seem happy 😄
I had half a beer & cleaned up a bunch of kid puke, so think was already covered.
I had half a beer & cleaned up a bunch of kid puke, so think was already covered.
@GoyGirl I don't have traditional depression. I tie my moods to my friends, people I love and the way I'm treated. I can have an amazing day just because somebody I really like spent their time making sure I was happy and content and the next day I lose a best friend probably permanently, I'm shown to be easily replicable by another the night prior. I don't get sad easily but when I am sad it's full swing unfortunately. I have figured out how to control anger or spitefulness in the last 5-6 years but I can never curtail the control others over have over my mood and I think that's a major downfall of me and my personality ngl
That all sounds fair & pretty normal for a kind of sensitive, or extroverted, person. I'm fairly much like that, myself, mixed with bouts of actual depression... more rare than when I was young, though. Shit happens. You'll make it 😄
@GoyGirl No I don't think I will, sorry
@Nigger404 @GoyGirl I've been treated like shit quite literally by anybody I've let in
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@Robert_Edwardly @GoyGirl "You are affected by those around you? BPD!"
Hey, you said it was a downfall 😉 No, I used to be pretty similar... now I just avoid people 😆🤷♀️
...picture them in their underwear.
@Robert_Edwardly @GoyGirl Shut the fuck up nigger
@GoyGirl @Robert_Edwardly Only if it's women I'm surrounded with
@Robert_Edwardly @GoyGirl Your tactics don't work on me nnr
@graf @GoyGirl Some people have that where one person fucks your complete day up
Some of us can fight with one person and turn around and be just fine with a different person like nothing happened
Some of us can't compartmentalize that, you are one of those maybe.
Ironically, it's the brain you got that makes you good at what you do technically, that also fucks you not being able to compartmentalize
Pattern recognizers are awful at compartmentalization, because its the lateral thinking here that fucks you but makes you good at tech, and also over-analyzing and recursive loops, which also make you good at tech but not at compartmentalizing
Something that helped me, after years of failure getting out of recursive loops and bad moods, was speaking it out loud. "I'm not doing this shit, why the fuck would I be doing this shit to myself", it took a time for it to work, not saying it works for everyone.
try it, keep doing it, in the end what does it cost you, but sincerely, give yourself shit, out loud for letting others control how you feel. (this excludes gf shit, that's another kettle of fish)
Sincerely mate, I hope you figure it out
Some of us can fight with one person and turn around and be just fine with a different person like nothing happened
Some of us can't compartmentalize that, you are one of those maybe.
Ironically, it's the brain you got that makes you good at what you do technically, that also fucks you not being able to compartmentalize
Pattern recognizers are awful at compartmentalization, because its the lateral thinking here that fucks you but makes you good at tech, and also over-analyzing and recursive loops, which also make you good at tech but not at compartmentalizing
Something that helped me, after years of failure getting out of recursive loops and bad moods, was speaking it out loud. "I'm not doing this shit, why the fuck would I be doing this shit to myself", it took a time for it to work, not saying it works for everyone.
try it, keep doing it, in the end what does it cost you, but sincerely, give yourself shit, out loud for letting others control how you feel. (this excludes gf shit, that's another kettle of fish)
Sincerely mate, I hope you figure it out
@Sargent_s_laughter @GoyGirl There's 4 people on this entire planet that have the ability to fuck my entire day up. Nobody else.
@Sargent_s_laughter @GoyGirl To you, sure. I have other people I care about significantly in my life. My mom, for example. You clearly don't consider that.
I have two moods.
> Happy
> I should drive to that mf'ers house right now and stab his eyes out with a fork, but I don't want to go to prison.
> Happy
> I should drive to that mf'ers house right now and stab his eyes out with a fork, but I don't want to go to prison.
@Humpleupagus @GoyGirl @graf I don;t know anyone who'd make me that angry, cos I'd cut that mofo out of my circle like a tumor, even one of my brothers (one drinks non stop when not working and is exhausting, so I just don't entertain it or him period) I value my quality of life over pandering to a drunk belligerent retard)
@Sargent_s_laughter @Humpleupagus @GoyGirl Nigger thats half the people on this website male and female
@Robert_Edwardly @GoyGirl It's over for you stalker child
@Robert_Edwardly @GoyGirl Last night I pulled something in my right shoulder. I have had shooting pain from my neck all the way down to my fingers. My fingers have been. Randomly twitching. Sometimes for 10-15 minutes. It's quite literally over for me. So send your cash to poast before I die
@Robert_Edwardly @f0x @GoyGirl @graf just going off this thread, I'm detecting a lot more pathological vibes from you than graf. and that's no mean feat.
@Robert_Edwardly @f0x @GoyGirl @graf rofl I never thought it was. it's just if you're gonna armchair diagnose somebody you might want to have some idea of the shit you're diagnosing people with (unless your goal is to come across as bitter and provocative for no reason)
bpd and bipolar aren't even close to each other and the symptoms that are common between them cover a vast range of regulation disorders with extremely different etiologies. it's about as useful as saying a dog "looks like it could be a german shepherd or a shihtsu" (I don't respect the diagnoses themselves either so arguing their finer points isn't gonna matter to me, it's just that you only showed you don't understand the labels you yourself are trying to use (which is funny because you claim to have some professional training in it))
bpd and bipolar aren't even close to each other and the symptoms that are common between them cover a vast range of regulation disorders with extremely different etiologies. it's about as useful as saying a dog "looks like it could be a german shepherd or a shihtsu" (I don't respect the diagnoses themselves either so arguing their finer points isn't gonna matter to me, it's just that you only showed you don't understand the labels you yourself are trying to use (which is funny because you claim to have some professional training in it))
@ajax @GoyGirl @Robert_Edwardly @graf >bpd and bipolar aren't even close to each other and the symptoms that are common between them cover a vast range of regulation disorders with extremely different etiologies. it's about as useful as saying a dog "looks like it could be a german shepherd or a shihtsu"
Well put, lol'd. Nigger swept the floor while watching mentally ill people get mistreated. At best an orderly. Aka worse than a nurse, somehow.
Well put, lol'd. Nigger swept the floor while watching mentally ill people get mistreated. At best an orderly. Aka worse than a nurse, somehow.
Unpopular opinion/hot take, whatever: fully 75%, if not more, of "mental illness" is physiology.
By that, I mean you're eating some shit food, taking some shit pharma/OTC/rec drug/booze, wreaking havoc on your blood sugar, BUUUT - yes - human interactions are physiology-affecting, too. At least 80-90% of it is within our control beyond teen years, even the human aspect.
By that, I mean you're eating some shit food, taking some shit pharma/OTC/rec drug/booze, wreaking havoc on your blood sugar, BUUUT - yes - human interactions are physiology-affecting, too. At least 80-90% of it is within our control beyond teen years, even the human aspect.
I believe schizophrenia & bipolar, along with more profound (not trendy) autism, & a few other things are more common among males 😉 But I know we take the cake for anxiety & BPD.
pretty sure bi-polar is feminine.
Bipolar is more rare than the retarded mental health community lets on, lol, & they blanket tons of undeserving folks with it, but guess it's equal 🤔
Men with bi-polar: I'm an angry drunk
Women with bi-polar: I'm a fat nutcase shrew
Women with bi-polar: I'm a fat nutcase shrew
@PodunkPotato @ajax @GoyGirl @Robert_Edwardly @graf guys with bipolar disorder can get fucking nuts, almost entirely because men are statistically smarter and a clever crazy is arguably the worst kind.
@PodunkPotato @GoyGirl @Robert_Edwardly @ajax @graf most women are terrible at being mentally ill. A lot of modern mental illness stems from birth control usage, improper/lack of exposure to the outdoors, and a shitty diet.
...I was pretty good at being mentally ill before I figured some of that out & quit birth control (early 20's), though 😆🫣
@GoyGirl @ajax @PodunkPotato @Robert_Edwardly @graf congrats on healing, sister. It's hard living in such a predatory world, especially in mental health circles.
Had some counselor admit once that they were also finding anyone whose personality might've clashed with, say, their fundamentalist boomer parents' expectations... was often being mislabeled as bipolar by late teens/early 20's.
It was just cycles of anxiety about trying to be/find themselves amidst parents who didn't accept them, & occasional "depression" at process, or to fit in more. Hmmm 🤔
It was just cycles of anxiety about trying to be/find themselves amidst parents who didn't accept them, & occasional "depression" at process, or to fit in more. Hmmm 🤔
@GoyGirl @ajax @PodunkPotato @Robert_Edwardly @graf I don't trust psychologists at all. They are entirely compromised by the government and their ego. Both hugely dangerous.
Look into the amount of abuse of males in juvie and asylums to force schizophrenic disorders upon healthy boys for a ton of terrible cattle-creating reasons. Huge thing that started in the 90's iirc.
Look into the amount of abuse of males in juvie and asylums to force schizophrenic disorders upon healthy boys for a ton of terrible cattle-creating reasons. Huge thing that started in the 90's iirc.