What is the solution to dead bedrooms?
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@monsignor_dickface many people are saying this. It's the most clear solution but it makes me feel icky.
Sexless marriage seems like it defeats the purpose of marriage, but if you divorce it's not really marriage.
Sexless marriage seems like it defeats the purpose of marriage, but if you divorce it's not really marriage.
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5You're damned if you do and damned if you dont.
@monsignor_dickface It seems like women have always kind of wanted to be whore (could just be modern social contaigon) and despite the rapist1488 LARP men secretly do want our women to be sincerely happy, which is probably why our ancestors didn't shoot women when they asked for stuff like the franchise. It could be trying to please a masochist where the worst thing you can do is give them what they're asking for, but I don't think men have a theory of mind for women that can comprehend that. Because how do you deal with a person like that and still love and respect them?
At the risk of oversharing, mine wants nothing to do with anything even remotely intimate like that. Whenever we do something of that sort, its always a "I'm doing you a favor" sort of vibe.
I've never met anyone with a sex drive of 0 before. And I'm the retard who put a ring on it.
I've never met anyone with a sex drive of 0 before. And I'm the retard who put a ring on it.
@monsignor_dickface That is very unfortunate and very scary for an unmarried man to hear.
When we met, I was living with 2 of my best friends in an adequate but run down house. So there was not a lot of privacy.
I believed her when she said we'd do that stuff more when we had our own place.
So I got a better job and could afford my own apt. Things improved for a month or so then it was we'll do that more when we're married.
So we got married. Things were better for a month or so then it was "is that all you think about?" Now I'm going on 4 months of nothing. She moved into the guest room to get away from sleeping in the same room as me.
Now I'm at the point of I just live with a bitchy roommate I cant evict. Everything I do is wrong and not the way its supposed to be done. Thankfully, there are no children involved so the separation (and probable divorce) the horizon should be pretty smooth.
I believed her when she said we'd do that stuff more when we had our own place.
So I got a better job and could afford my own apt. Things improved for a month or so then it was we'll do that more when we're married.
So we got married. Things were better for a month or so then it was "is that all you think about?" Now I'm going on 4 months of nothing. She moved into the guest room to get away from sleeping in the same room as me.
Now I'm at the point of I just live with a bitchy roommate I cant evict. Everything I do is wrong and not the way its supposed to be done. Thankfully, there are no children involved so the separation (and probable divorce) the horizon should be pretty smooth.