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Zero income?? Thought everyone said you were rich!

I did the semi-ascetic/anprim male thing for years before my husband, but would be lying if didn't say it made me too insecure to procreate.

I can be far from rich, but I had to know someone knew about the next meal, so I could raise my own kids - not daycare.
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… would be lying if didn't say it made me too insecure to procreate.

… so I could raise my own kids

Obviously you‘re correct about this; what’s frustrating to me is that it’s even become a question. I still see many, many millennial-age couples that complied themselves right into genocide - and still blame themselves like it’s their own fault that they didn’t ”just make more money”.

At some point it needs to be broadly realized that this was done to us — we didn’t genocide ourselves. Clearly we’re liable for something, but it wasn’t “failing to make more money”, it was letting the economy fall into enemy hands.

What is? Finances?? I've always been good with money. Frugal, still charitable, perfect credit at 20-21 getting first not-hand-me-down car, gave friends loans, lol...

So I suppose it was a tall order to find a guy I respected more than myself in that area. And I did. Eventually.

I got me a fancy one who is usually stable except for when she's not and can be somewhat uncooperative. While I might complain about that from time to time, it's bullshit and I know damned well I could never possibly find a better match and we deserve one another.