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@kaia what if they make the first move?

chatty service workers that bait boomers into trying it are also cringe af just my humble opinion
just make the sandwich please and thank you

@bajax depends, just being friendly from side of service worker is not first move. many people misinterpret

@kaia with all due respect to service workers, civil servants are where it's at. although i am slightly biased because i spent a little time with one recently

@kaia

It is.

But I was once eating alone in a restaurant and the waitress chatted me up, her shift was about to end and we then went for drinks.
Really nice experience.

They're people, too, so I think the same rules about unwanted advances should apply.
In short: Do not. Unless consent.

@kaia
Also, this is Fedi.

Almost anyone here will think that people are just being friendly, even when they're being flirted with

@kaia he was ugly, right?

@lain was a reddit thread about woman who tried to get the deets of a guy working there and he went "why?"

@kaia so it was made up

the CIA makes them!

@lain

@lain @kaia
How insensitive! Nothing on the Internet is made up, ever! 😤