can i be a little mean? i think "live your life so no one celebrates your death" is a horrifically timid way to live. if i wanted to make sure no one celebrated my death i never would have come out as trans.
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@aisling how about "live your life so no one with a good heart celebrates your death", instead
@aisling when you put it that way, it's like living a life without regrets (impossible, not actually desirable) except for other people's regrets about you.
@aisling live your life so that millions of oppressed people don’t play crab rave when they hear you died
a corollary is some people never get the choice to not be hated by bigots all through their life and beyond