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what, is he asking for tree fidddy?

10k

That's a no from me dog. "I don't know you like that"

only reason I'd consider it is because of my ex but I'm not considering it right now. I'll call her tomorrow and find out what this is about

Smart move.
It could be situational. But he is just a boyfriend, which is also situational. Thus for me, it'd be a no.

I told him I won lend him money but I would consider lending it to her and that I'll talk to her tomorrow

That's a lot of money for someone that isn't family. I wouldn't even consider it.

I told him I wont lend him money but I think he's asking on behalf of my ex, so I will call her tomorrow to find out the actual story. She's not lied to me before so I expect she will be honest with this, too

Yeah im not a bank and if they're asking you, it means they have a poor history of money management.

>I'm good for it dawg you can trust me. No you're not you still owe me that $200 you fucking nigger.

imagine asking a stranger to borrow 10 thousand fucking dollars, i can't , i just don't have the temperment to be that fucking brazen.

I've met this guy once. that's what's wild to me. I can't imagine being down so bad you ask your girlfriends ex boyfriend to borrow 10 grand

also the last thing i'd wanna do is think about my girlfriend's ex at all.

if I asked you for a 10k loan you would turn me down?

There's a *long* list of people I would deny if they asked me for a 10k loan, so don't take it personally, but yes.

if I came to any of you requesting a loan it would be for a good reason and there is collateral behind it so that is unfortunate to hear, but I will add you to the list of "doesn't get it"

Collatetal was not mentioned in the initial question, but that could be a game changer, and I thought about mentioning it, I just forgot. Probably because I've been up for about... 20? hours at this point, and I was up for about 36 Friday in to Saturday night.

you and I aren't so different friend. but if I were to ask for a loan I would leverage ownership or something in its place. I wouldn't just flat out ask for it on a "i'm good for it" sort of way like this was

Agreed. I was also presuming the request was with the same absolute audacity as the guy who just asked you out of the blue for $10k.

He's not some broccoli haired zoomer or something, is he?

no that's what's funny. he's older than I am by a couple years I think. I only met him once but he's definitely older than I am

id just be cautious about asking your ex if she really wants to co-sign this loan, so she doesn't feel pressured into something that is not in her interests.

it's not a cosign, it would be to her only. i told him I will not loan him anything

All im saying is don't give her a loan if she is just going to fork over money to a deadbeat and end up in debt.

By the sounds of it, he's exhausted her line of credit and she is freaking out at him about it but I will find out tomorrow. if I do loan it to her there will be a lot of terms with it

by the sounds of it, you'd be retarded to give them 10,000 dollars, because the loan would definitely be giving them the money with no expectations of it coming back.

we have already established that i'm retarded this isn't adding anything to the conversation

Atleast hearing them out would be a juicy piece of drama. I heard of these story's a few times before.

My cousin had this guy who tried begging her for 50k and told him to get lost.

yeah I want the story and it costs me nothing to listen to it I already told him I am not loaning him money but I want to hear my ex plead her case a year after she tried to kill me

there is a history behind this and why she is probably forcing him to ask me and it's because I told her mom I would buy out her mortgage so she could finalize her separation from her ex husband in finland. her mom found it necessary to tell my ex the money was coming from me so now she thinks i'm a bank

i often like hearing stories of other people fucking up so i can go "and i thought i was a fuck up"

you shouldn't encourage me if you think it's a fuck up brother that's not nice

no i mean listening to how they're in a situation where they need 10k cuiz they fucked up

oh yeah I will find out for sure what the issue is tomorrow but its probably drugs or alcohol or both

If it's either the answer should be No.

i dunno how you'd spend 10k on drugs or alcohol.

I would put all of it into poast and the remainder into NCD

I can afford my own vices brother