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"Think you know a guy? Start torturing him. Then you'll see how quick his tune changes."

@Ghislaine holy shit men are precious (bad)

@georgia @Ghislaine sex is a necessary but not sufficient part of love for a lot of people it's not complicated

@sun @Ghislaine comparing forgoing one source of orgasm for an extended period to torture is insanely melodramatic

@georgia @Ghislaine @sun do you even know the kind of thoughts and feelings a man would feel if this happened to one? it can lead one to spiral.

You talk a lot about stuff but you don't really put yourself in others' shoes, but it's probably because men != women.

@mischievoustomato @Ghislaine @sun I experienced how torturous it was to be away from the one I loved, sure. but I was fine not having sex with her.

@georgia @Ghislaine @sun i mean yeah that's what I mean with the shoes thing, it's different for men and for probably most people? sex is important. Hell, I actually think it'd be torturous for a woman too because it's understood that a man that suddenly doesn't care about segs with his gf or wife usually means he's fucking someone else.

@mischievoustomato @georgia @Ghislaine a substantial amount of feminist discourse seems by women who have completely abnormal point of view, which isn't inherently a problem if you're interested in protecting minorities; but then it is treated as suitable for everyone, most women want sex too for example