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@KitsuneVixi@sakurajima.social it's "micro" compared to, like, getting fired from your job for being queer

confusedly switching between "he/him" and "she/her" with a nonbinary person and expecting them to correct you first, before exasperatedly asking them what they want: i'm not mad but it's happened twice and i'm just befuddled honestly

@halva@mk.absturztau.be finally. wired bluetooth

quick clarification in case anyone is confused:

referring to an individual you don't know by "they/them" pronouns, because you don't know which ones to use: good, do this

referring to a trans woman by "they/them" pronouns specifically only after finding out she was trans, when you were using "she/her" pronouns before that (or vice versa for trans men, going from "he/him"): that is a microagression

my opinion on software licenses is fuck off I'm stealing it anyways

99% of smart home crap just feels like

why is it connected to the internet? so it can get updates
why does it need updates? because it's connected to the internet